How to Make Up With Your Ex, It Is Possible
Many guys react to a break up with the usual mistakes: they try to call their ex all day even when they recive no answer, they spy on their gilfriends trying to find out what she is doing or worse, they get drunk and call her at three in the morning to try to get her back. None of those work, but here are three simple steps you should use to start making up with your ex girlfriend.
Agree with your ex about the break up. Don’t freak, this is just part of the plan. What we are doing is changing her frame of mind so we can make you more interesting to her.
You know this isn’t true, but your ex will feel attracted to you again because she will think that she can’t have you.
If you give her the impression that she can’t have you back, you will notice how her reactions change and she will start wanting you more. This is because everybody wants what they can’t have. Remain cool at all times and she will be more attracted to you.
Do not call her after that first phone call or meeting after you let her know you’re ok with the breakup. The longer you don’t talk to her after the initial impression that you’re no longer interested in her and have moved on, the more and more she’ll want you back.
When she senses that you’ve moved on and aren’t interested, 95% of the time she will want to get back to you. You must display confidence and independence from her when you initially speak to her. The better you do this, the better the effect and the longer you do not call her after, the more she will want you back. She’ll call, you’ll see (if you do it right).
Keep the impression that you’re not interested going. Even if the ex does call you and claims that she wants to get back together, don’t just jump right in, keep the hard to get, independent and not interested vibe going. So even if she does call and asks to meet up, agree to it, but if she tries to make a move, keep away from it, resist and act as though you aren’t interested. Trust me, this will build up and she will want you even more.
With these simple steps you have arisen her interest and she will be more receptive when you start your real plan to win your ex girlfriend back.
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