Decoding The Language Of A Woman, Part 1
Have you ever noticed that women will often-times say one thing, but mean another?
What is going on with that, anyhow?
Like those women who say that they’ll only date someone who is taller than them.
And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.
Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.
And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.
Sometimes the woman says she’s looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.
And then, she’s seen galavanting around with some dirt-poor schmoe who doesn’t have a penny to his name.
No matter how you look at it, lots and lots of women say they respond to one thing, when in reality, they ACTUALLY respond to something else.
I call this strange phenomenon “Girl Speak.”
Most guys don’t know how to translate this “Girl Speak”, and it’s a big problem, as they take a girl seriously in regards to it.
But this is a huge, HUGE mistake!
Women very rarely say what they actually mean. And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.
Take me for instance…
I’m a fat, bald, ugly shlub. Definitely no winner in the looks department.
But I’ve dated women who say they aren’t into “fat” guys. In fact, they actually prefer guys who “take care of themselves” and “go to the gym.”
Yet they still agree to date me!
I’ve dated girls who were way younger than me. One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old. I’m 30. This girl wasn’t interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.
I dated one particular girl who refused to date anyone but black men. I’m as white as chalk. But the girl made an exception for me.
How did I make these exceptions happen? I’ll cover that in the second part of this article!
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